Friday 11 March 2011

Solat buat kiddos...

Masa belek2 FB td..ternampak notes frm Wardina Safiyah..abt her dotter Amna solat..

Seronok dengar cerita n experience dia..enjoy reading guys!!

BERBALOI PENAT LELAH KU....

by WarDina Safiyyah Fullxadd on Friday, March 11, 2011 at 9:18pm
Dear mums...

I have to share this with you... because i feel so happy and i feel that all my penat lelah paid off...

I started to make my Amna to solat 5 times a day when she was 7, on her 7th birthday...we had a talk...(check note lama) tapi preparation since 6 la...tapi dari kecik memang selalu ikut2 la kami solat....she hasnt missed her solat since. Walaupun lambat, tetap solat. I made sure of that - because the key is SOLAT ni kalau tak tanam dari kecik memang LIAT nanti....But it is very important to keep this in mind:-

1) kalau kita bagi dia tinggal WALAUPUN sekali nanti we are sending the wrong signal - kena make sure - every waktu without fail, walaupun penat, ataupun lambat

2)l Selalu kalau boleh solat together..mula2 memang kena solat together....kalau tak ada rumah make sure an adult in the house pastikan anak kita solat. (hari tu Amna pergi her reading class, i asked her teacher to take her to the suarau)

3)Selalu cerita how IMPORATAMT it is to solat..how Allah is watching us... how we are good Muslims when we solat, how Allah loves us, Solat tu, untuk kita, bukan untuk Allah.....TAPI selalu jugak cerita yang akan ada orang TAK solat...acknowledge the fact that sometimes we feel lazy to solat....itu semua kerja SETAN! Fught them off....! I tell Amna that even some grown ups tak solat! I tell Amna that....we have to be strong.. we have to tell ourselves we will NEVER miss our solat.....

4)Awal2 subuh ni memang tak bangunkan, tapi as soon as dia bangun pagi, ill ask her to solat straight away.(yes memang leceh..but we have to, and we have to do it with LOVE diselang seli dgn strictness)

5)kalau dia tinggal -  DENGAN sengaja, i take the rotan and hit her on her tapak tangan slowly, just as a reminder. After that i hug her and tell her i love her, and i just want her to remember - and guess what?? memang dia ingat!!! (3 kali baru, i think not bad, sampai satu hari dia terlambat solat, sebab keluar dan memang tak ingat, dia yang suruh rotan) But i tell her kalau TERLUPA atau TERTIDUR its ok...but kena solat terus bila bangun.

Macam ni ceritanya, i told Amna, kalau Ummi ambik Amna dari sekolah lambat, Amna solat dulu Asar kat sekolah....tadi memang datang lambat...i was loking for her..and guess what????

She was actually praying her Asar prayers...i wanted to pengsan and cry...she did all by herself.... i pun told her how happy and how proud i was of her...i tanya dia kenapa? dia kata "Amna ingat apa Ummi cakap".....cair nya hatiku ini.

Apa lagi, Ummi ni peluk cium dia....and called nenek at Australia...now im sharing with all of you!!! Because i want us to raise generation of good Muslims that are disciplined, smart, intelligent -that remembers Allah because  the world so BADLY needs good QUALITY Muslims like this!!!

And the foundation is - to start them off right - solat at SEVEN! Yes just as how Rasulullah asked us!

I love you all!!! Good night.....

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Bagus kan...hmmm suka tgok cara dia didik anak dia..so sedikit sebanyak aku pun teriukut2 caranye..yg buat lain nye..anak dia pompuan..anak aku lelaki...

Dari Shiheen umur 6thn aku dah train solat..so automatically Zarriel pun kena solat..Jenuh juga...menguji kesabaran betul..baik dari cara2 amik wuduk sampai la ke Solat..Korang ajar anak2 korang cemane??

Kalau cara Cik Ain..aku baca kuat2..n dorang ikut (teringat2 masa belajar solat kat tempat ngaji dolu2..ngan Opah Mariam kat kampung..huhu..) Opah mariam pun baca kuat2..so kami ramai2 ikut..

Bacaan nye banyak2..so kiddos amik masa nak biasakan..even sampai sekrg pun  lupa..Al Fatihah..Al Ikhlas..Alhamdulillah boleh dah..

Balik kampung..pekan..kiddos akan ikut abg2 kazen nye solat..balik kampung ipoh..kiddos plak bawak kazen dia solat..Alhamdulillah la..

Sekarang darjah1 payah skit la nak solat kat sekolah...so hari sekolah..Shiheen akan solat Magrib n Isyak..Zarriel..zohor,asar, magrib isyak..tu pun zohor n asar jenuh pujuk..haih..kalo subuh tu sekali sekala..payah sungguh nak bangun..sudahnye ibu solat sendiri..

IsyaAllah aku cuba ingatkan dorang solat (ingatkan aku sendiri jugak!!)..if pegi jalan2 @ shopping mall pun aku akan bawak g solat kat surau..if pejalanan jauh pun aku akan cuba berhenti @ RnR..

Moga2 dengan pengalaman ni..kiddos tidak mudah lupa tanggungjawab mereka nak bersolat..nanti dah besar boleh la doa kan ibu okey..

MOGA KAMU BERDUA MENJADI ANAK YANG SOLEH..IBU SAYANG KAMU BERDUA!!

Walaupun bacaan blum lagi betul..tapi..tertib alhamdulillah..hampir sempurna...

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